Let’s admit it, very few people are alone on Valentines Day by choice. Globally, men and women typically, would if at all possible prefer to be with a companion they love on Valentines Day nevertheless that is not always practical. It shouldn’t be to difficult for a couple in a lasting romantic relationship but for those who are not presently dating, life might be a little bit more challenging. But don’t lose faith as this article is going to examine a couple of possibilities of getting that all-important Valentines date.
Although you might assume that any couple would automatically prefer to share Valentines Day with each other then you would be wrong. Take as a good example, that of a duo that have not been together for very long. They are possibly not exactly sure of the feelings of their new companion concerning whether or not they want to spend that special day with them. It could be plainly a case of simple insecurity. It will also depend upon the intensiveness of the connection; if the “love bells” are jingling strong in each of their heads then spending Valentines Day with each other can perhaps be a guaranteed reality.
But for the couples that find themselves in a more slowly developing relation, almost casual in fact, then the desire might not be so strong, they are not yet confident of precisely where they want this relationship to go. Fairly sensible really, you may even support the approach that what really is so significant about Valentines Day in any case. Is it just yet another over hyped, over sold annual occasion? Well maybe so, but it has been with us for a great many years and it would be a shame if it vanished. It has fired up countless renowned lovers!
Of course the unwillingness could be the fear of being rejected on both parts. Actually there are a couple of points here, forget leap years, there is almost nothing these days to prevent a woman from making an approach in addition to the man. And in both of these situations why not just go for it? Pose the question. The worst that can take place is that the other half says “no”, so then you find out precisely where you rank and it may be about time to move on!
You may think it safe to conclude that couples that have been in a steady relationship for some time would by default be spending Valentines Day with each other. And ordinarily this would hold true unless employment or perhaps other family commitments prevented this from being possible. It goes without saying Valentines Day can occur on any day of the working week and is not a government holiday in any country.
Presuming this is not going to be a problem then the next little setback could just be one of taking matters for granted. For instance, each partner may be taking for granted that the other is intending that they spend Valentines Day with each other. But in fact maybe one or both parties have no such intent. This has taken place many times resulting in a break-up in the relationship leaving one or both by themselves for Valentines Day. This could have all been avoided if the two had just made that tiny bit of energy and effort to go over the arrangements together.
Normally, single people are the sector that may be most likely to spend Valentines Day on their own, not typically on purpose but because of a whole array of circumstances. Maybe they just want to be alone at all times of the year and are just not prepared to enjoy any real contact with the opposite sex.
On the other hand there could be genuine desire to make contact with a dream partner that has been in their sights for a long time but contact has thus far been challenging. A direct approach has not been made for the conceivable fear of that already mentioned rejection. Then Valentines Day is just the opportunity to use as a pretext to request that special rendezvous. Once again, what is the worst that can happen, they say “no”! C’est la vie at the very least you know there is no potential future in that direction. About time to search once more or what about making use of one of the many online dating agencies? These days there is very little stigma connected to this style of dating and many long term relationships have come about from just this sort of introduction.
But what if that person says “yes”, then life could be about to change majorly and not merely for that one very special day either!
Maybe you are not planning anything significant for Valentines Day and have no desire to get involved right now. So there is absolutely nothing wrong with just getting together with a casual friend or perhaps few friends. Go for a very special dinner or the cinema in fact anything that suits your company, after all although Valentines Day is about love and emotion there is no reason it has to be directed at just one person. As long as you enjoy your day that is the only thing that matters. If it is your wish then I hope that you will not have to survive Valentines Day on your own.
Make your Valentines Day the best and get outrageous results.